Reblogged from Independent women:
Grief is messy and hard. It doesn’t let up. You grow up an “I” person: I’m doing this or that, I’m going to such and such, I’m studying this subject etc. Then you meet someone and you find yourself becoming a “we” person: we’re buying a house, we’re having a baby, we’re going on holiday.
Then maybe that all goes wrong – or not – and you are again an “I” person, but not the same “I” person that you were before.
This honest, brave blog offers insight into a particularly difficult time... Thank you.